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Gaming Consoles are they really that bad?

Many years ago when I was free and single I had a PlayStation, yes a PlayStation 1, and loved playing the computer games of the moment.Then I met my ex and stopped, yeah I know I gave up something I loved for a man, it wasn’t the only thing I gave up for him and look back and feel stupid for doing so, but that’s a whole different story!
Any way let’s get back to this one, so now divorced and moving on with my life, I have been trying to find myself again and one thing I missed was playing computer games, so with the advantage of Cyber Monday last year I got myself a bargain of a PS4 and Star Wars Battlefront 2.I was so excited.Also I had had numerous conversations with my son last year, as he wanted to get a gaming console as everyone he knew at school had one and was feeling left out.So as well as this being something to get my mojo back, I hoped it would help out my son too.
Now I know you are all probably aware of all the headlines over the last few months, especially with how pop…
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Let's see;

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